Like much of the more common, face-to-face business etiquette, online business etiquette seems to have gone by the wayside today. If you’re serious about succeeding in the online business world, though, you should pay attention to business etiquette even if no one else does.
It’s something that can set you apart and brand you as a true professional — but only if you know how to address it correctly and don’t go so overboard that you seem stiff, overly formal, and too hard to work with. You still have to be friendly and personable, or you’ll make people uncomfortable and actually lose business based on that instead of gaining business based on the polite way you treat people.
Using Proper Online Business Etiquette
No matter what else is taking place, there are three things that you should be sure to do:
- Address the recipient of your communication by name, instead of a greeting that’s too casual. ‘Hey, man’ is not an appropriate greeting unless you know the person well, and even then you might want to avoid getting too ‘friendly’ with business contacts. There’s a reason that business and social lives are often kept separate.
- Make the message personal by letting the person know a bit about who you are, and be sure that it’s clear why you are sending the message or why you have contacted that person. Don’t just assume they know.
- Request action. There’s nothing worse than reading an email from someone and not having any idea what — if anything — you’re supposed to do next. Sending emails just to talk is fine for friends and family members, but it’s not usually done in the online business world, so make sure the person who reads your message knows what he or she is supposed to do with it. Whether that person takes action is then up to them, but leave the metaphorical ball in their court.
What If You Make Mistakes?
If you make mistakes — and most people will — be quick to clear them up. Even if you do something wrong and seem impolite or insensitive, apologizing quickly and providing a brief and realistic explanation (the person you’re apologizing to doesn’t need your life history) can go a very long way toward keeping businesses intact.
Avoiding mistakes is obviously better than having to apologize for them, though, so think before you click ’send,’ before you respond to an email or other message in anger, and before you make a comment that you think is funny. That doesn’t mean that everyone else will share your amusement level, and with written communication it’s often hard to convey emotions. People can’t see your facial expressions or hear the sound and tone of your voice. Sometimes putting “:o)” after it is enough. Sometimes it’s not.
If you’re very unsure about how to proceed with online business etiquette or you feel that your skills are lacking, there are training courses that you can take and DVDs that you can buy to be more aware of business etiquette issues within the online community and in the face-to-face business world, as well.
Michi Beck is a YouCanSubmit writer. You can visit her on the Web.


